The nipples are a wonderfully sensuous body part due to their role in the sexual response cycle. An erection can indicate arousal while playing with your nipples can make sex feel even better. And if you think nipple play is only for women, guess again! Anyone with nipples--and that's everyone--can enjoy nipple stimulation, and the techniques below will get you started.
Getting Started with Nipple Stimulation
Even if it's your first time having sex, you probably realize that nipples respond to sucking and nibbling. But you can go well beyond that. Don't forget to try blowing on them. If you're in a chilly room, this will likely make them erect, and you can use your breath after cooling massage oil or an ice cube to up the ante.
To get the most out of nipple foreplay, keep in mind that they can become erect from arousal or temperature. Both increase your sensitivity. But erect nipples caused by the cold may be sensitive in an uncomfortable way, although that's not a problem if you like your little pain with your pleasure!
On that note, you can try the following if you enjoy the more painful side of things. Try sucking hard enough to leave a mark (a hickey) or biting. A dab of flavored lube makes it especially fun for the giving partner.
The boobs and nipples are also in the perfect position for a well-placed slap or swing of a small flogger, even during penetrative sex.
Sex Toys for Nipple Play
You can also find several types of toys that provide nipple stimulation. Some are designed specifically for nipple play, while others are versatile.
- Suction toys, sometimes called teasers, nipple pumps increase blood flow and sensitivity. Place the barrel over the nipple, and you're good to go.
- Nipple Clamps restrict blood flow, creating pain when you take them off. You'll even find those with weights or chain connectors.
- Clitoral air pulse toys and oral simulators often work just as well for nipple play.
- Try vibrating toys, too.
The Fun Continues with Peek-a-Boo Lingerie
Although being shirtless or completely naked gives you complete access to the breasts and nipples, it's not the only way to keep them free during sex. Shelf and open-cup bras are more about support than coverage. Similarly, you might like an underbust corset. And some cutout bras leave the nipples bare. As long as you choose a thin fabric, you can move it out of the way--or play with the nipples right through it!
Another great option is to create your own breast or chest harness out of rope. It's perfect for anyone who likes bondage and has the patience to learn the intricate knots.